O the eternal Aristotelical quest for the mid-term…
By my own experience, I’d reached the conclusion that, in some aspects, subjects or fields, finding a mid-term is simply impossible. Sometimes one have to make a crucial decision, a choice – perhaps of their lives. In some situations, a whole lifetime may be submitted to trial: sort of “the first day of the rest of their lives”.
And not being afraid of the consequences.
That’s what happened to me.
What’s the use in being neurotic about this? That’s life.